Aprendendo: apega e desapega

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Quando cheguei na Austrália, percebi que algumas pessoas que moram aqui perguntavam logo no início da conversa: – Quanto tempo você vai ficar? E para as pessoas que respondiam 2 semanas ou 1 mês, alguns moradores não puxavam muito assunto e eu achava estranho e só depois que fui entender.

Morar em um país com muitas pessoas que estão de passagem pode ter um lado triste, pois nos apegamos as pessoas e depois elas se vão.

Aprender a se apegar e a se desapegar rapidamente não é tão fácil, antes achava que era frescura, mas depois de ter conhecido pessoas tão especiais e que voltaram para seu país, senti na pele essa situação.

Esta experiência de estar tão longe de casa e conhecer alguém, se identificar e saber que em duas semanas, 1 mês ou não importa tanto o tempo e sim a intensidade da amizade, aquele contato irá “acabar” é complicado. Sei que algumas pessoas não vão entender ou mesmo concordar, porque no fundo sei o que importa é o momento. Mas na prática, o que tenho visto é algumas pessoas evitando o contato (por saberem que vai acabar), não querem aprofundar a amizade para evitar sofrer no futuro.

Mas é aquela história, não vou tentar fazer isso porque vai que dá errado, mas e se der certo?

Conheci gente que aprendeu a lidar com isso, mas teve muitos “corações” quebrados até entender que na vida estamos aqui para nos relacionar e de passagem. Podemos nos decepcionar com amigos de infância ou por aquela pessoa que você jamais imaginava e também pode ser surpreendido por encontrar pessoas que não gostava muito no passado e agora ela está muito diferente. ou até mesmo uma pessoa que não fala seu idioma, nem mesmo você o dela e agora vocês querem conversar o tempo todo. Obs. Obrigada tradutor automático.

Mas o que estou aprendendo com isso? Abertismo. Sim, nos abrir para viver, se vivermos com medo do resultado do que pode acontecer (tanto positivo, quanto negativo) ainda estamos querendo controlar a situação.

Fácil? Não mesmo, mas vale a pena.

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