Por menos joguinhos no “amor”

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Hoje gostaria de compartilhar reflexões sobre relacionamento. Esta semana conversei com algumas amigas e por sincronicidade vieram falar que estavam em crise por estarem se sentindo rejeitadas.

As histórias (apesar de elas não se conhecerem e morarem em cidades diferentes) eram muito parecidas. Eis que elas conheceram um rapaz e o rapaz não tinha nada demais, não necessariamente era o “príncipe encantado”, mas tratou elas super bem e elas foram admirando e se encantando pelo rapaz, mas o que aconteceu? O rapaz só fala com elas quando ele quer. E elas ficam confusas e não entendem se aquela atenção dada era com segunda intenções ou não. Se ele faz isso com todas as meninas ou não. E se quer ter algo sério ou só curtição.

E elas começaram a entrar em um padrão de tristeza muito grande por estarem confusas se o cara quer ou não quer.

Por falta de coragem de se posicionar para o rapaz e questionar: E ae? Quer ou não quer? Ficam esperando o dia todo por mensagens no Whats app e sofrem quando ele demora para responder.

Anteriormente eu achava que ele estava fazendo joguinho, mas fui reparar que elas sem perceberem, também estavam fazendo joguinho, demorando para responder só para ele achar que ela não estava tão desesperada e não curtindo foto no Facebook para ele não se vangloriar.

Bom, a parte amorosa da vida não é fácil. Sou a favor de as coisas as claras e sem joguinhos. Penso que começar um relacionamento já com este sofrimento não é positivo.

Penso que uma coisa é quando você não sabe exatamente o que quer e outra beeem diferente é tentar ficar tramando coisas para o outro sofrer um pouco por você.

Ás vezes por medo de sermos rejeitadas não nos posicionamos e sofremos ainda mais. Pode ocorrer também de estarmos afim só porque não temos a pessoa. Enfim, cada pessoa funciona de uma maneira, sou a favor de nos entendermos,  nos conhecermos, nos pesquisarmos para ver como funcionamos. Podemos até esquecer este cara, mas a vida continua e pode acontecer com outro rapaz. Portanto, viva a autopesquisa.

Sou da bandeira de mais amor e menos jogos. Penso que neste departamento se é preciso jogar, a partida já está perdida.

 

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